Get over yourself!

by Patti Novak

True love doesn't just happen, notes professional matchmaker Patti Novak. You have to work for it--and want it. Forget eight-minute speed dates or online dating sites with twenty-page questionnaires that promise a scientifically calculated perfect match. The fact that you both like golf, stamp collecting, and pizza with anchovies is great, but it won't mean a thing if you don't feel that zing. But before there can be sparks, there have to be dates. And before the first date, you need to get over yourself! Taking a tough-love approach, and in her signature straight-shooting style, Patti will show you how to fix what needs to be fixed, reach your core, and identify who you are and what you want in a partner. She uses a three-part common-sense formula:- Getting Over What? Assess your dating weaknesses, recognize what's not working, and adjust your expectations. Delve into your personal history and past relationships, and pinpoint the issues that have been holding you back.- Almost Over It